by Lisa Nadig
A Good Father Doesn’t Destroy His Child’s Mother Because In doing So He Also Destroys His Child!
- A good father would never dream of destroying the mother of his child because in doing so, he is destroying his child.
- A good father would never remove a child’s mother from his life.
- A good father would honor and appreciate the mother of his child.
- A good father would uphold her good name rather than slandering her every chance he gets with the most heinous and perverse lies.
- A good father does not abuse the mother of his children.
- A good father would never isolate a child away from his only remaining biological grandparent, countless aunts, uncles, cousins and lifelong family friends just because they support the child’s mother. And only allow contact with the few haters.
- A good father would not sew discord and strife in her family for power and financial gain – he would respect proper, healthy boundaries.
- A good father understands that his children need their Mother and that the best way to love them is to respect their Mother.
- A good father honors all that she has done to bring the child into the world, love and nurture.
Lisa’s Bio: There comes a point where silence is no longer an option. Quietly doing everything everyone asked of me, being the good little targeted parent only made things worse with no end in sight to the legal harassment and bullying. ~~ A pack of lies have torn our lives apart. It is time to repair the damage – to tell the truth. Family Court operates on a “pay to play” level to predetermine the “winner” without due process. It promotes “conflict for cash” and engages in emotional blackmail and extortion.
Family court players collude, conspire, scheme and falsify facts and law to benefit themselves financially, harass and oppress families, put children in crisis, inflict emotional distress upon families, and engage in Schadenfreude, while at the same time forcing people into “therapy” with those fully entrenched in the system, profiting from perpetuating pain. https://en.gravatar.com/mothersunsilenced
“Nobody does smear campaign better than family court lawyers and their therapy vendors, angry ex’s and testy relatives-all of them fueled by greed. And the favorite smear tactic of all, the go-to paint-by-numbers character assassination is to whisper somebody’s “crazy”. Why? Because it’s the quickest and easiest game of telephone to get going around.
If you’ve talked to any of the court vendors who were added onto this case late in the game by child rep Natalie Koga, because the Official Custody Evaluation – Court Ordered 604.b performed by one of the top forensic evaluators in the State of Illinois, Dr. David Finn (costing over $12,000) – didn’t yield the results she and my ex-husband were looking for, and certainly if you’ve talked to their hired guns, I’m sure they’ve eagerly whispered to you of their “concern” for my mental health, because, of course, they have nothing but my best interests at heart, right?”
“Fathers who batter the mother are twice as likely to seek sole custody of their children as are non-violent fathers.’ – American Psychological Association
VENGEFUL FATHER SYNDROME–
DIAGNOSTIC CRITERIA FOR VENGEFUL FATHER SYNDROME
The most notable behaviors and attitudes manifested by vengeful fathers and which indicate Vengeful Father’s Syndrome.
“Forcibly taking a mother’s children, and then controlling her emotionally by withholding contact must be publicly recognized as one of the greatest forms of ‘mis-use’ of the American justice system and one of the greatest hidden vehicles for wide-spread socially approved physical and emotional abuse and control.” Coral Anika Theill
Paternal Abuse and Control–
The definition of Paternal Child Abuse includes the battery of the child’s mother, and deprivation of attention by taking a child from a mother as an act of revenge, power and control through custody proceedings after domestic violence divorces.
This age old Paternal Entitlement has been part of the fabric of this society that no longer fits. When women began to rise up against this patriarchal rule, the ‘Rules of the Father’, they were met with swift correction. The fatherhood programs brought new oppression, rights we relied on to protect us in times of trouble simply don’t exist, when women go to law enforcement and the courts they discover this fraternal order is in place to protect men from prosecution and maintain order in the family. With funding earmarked for fatherhood, mothers lose custody during domestic violence divorce and disclosures of abuse.
When a child experiences a father abusing a mother it leaves lasting scars. Domestic Violence has adverse effects on the child. Child abuse and neglect cost our society, not only in terms of the trauma caused to the maltreated of individuals, but also in economic terms. “A child’s exposure to certain traumas, including domestic violence, sexual abuse, or being separated from a primary attachment parent, results in children suffering more illnesses and injuries as children, later as adults, and are expected to have a shortened life span.”
How Many Children Are Court -Ordered Into Unsupervised Contact With an Abusive Parent After Divorce?
Contact: Joyanna Silberg, PhD, Executive Vice President
tel: (410) 938-4974 or email Joyanna Silberg
Bala Cynwyd, Pa.
According to a conservative estimate by experts at the Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interpersonal Violence (LC), more than 58,000 children a year are ordered into unsupervised contact with physically or sexually abusive parents following divorce in the United States. This is over twice the yearly rate of new cases of childhood cancer.
Presidential Candidates, Representatives in Congress, Tax Payers-Voters: Eliminate Dangerous HHS Funding Fueling a War on Children
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